"Don't you have an editing program to fix that?"
I am sure that there are a number of photographers out there that have heard this very phrase. You deliver what you feel are amazing realistic photos to your client, and than you get this very response. People have grown to such a point that they all believe that they should be super models, and even though they are not that a photo can be edited to make them into a super model. I will admit that this is something that can be accomplished. Photoshop and Lightroom are very valuable tools and are quite amazing at editing photos. These programs are able to not only give us our personal "dark room" but also give us the ability to manipulate a photo and make it or our subject look however we choose. However it is something that we have to choose to do.
This is a very touchy subject for me and it is hard to properly express what needs to be said. Photos are meant to be memories, and to give you a glimpse into the past. To remind you of a moment long forgotten and to bring it back to the forefront at a moments notice. However, if the photo is a lie, than how is that memory going to special? How is there any meaning to it? How can you tell someone the amazing story that goes with the photo, when what is depicted is not accurate? Sounds strange to think about, but it is something that is worth thinking about. If per say a photographer was to take a person and "magically shed" all those pounds for them and make them look like Cindy Crawford what does that do for the client? Nothing. Truth be told the client is paying the photographer to lie. And than what is going to happen to that picture and all the hours of editing? It will be stuffed away into the dark recesses of computer storage or a desk top drawer. Never to see the light of day. Why? Because in reality who can the client show that photo too? If they show it to anyone it is going to be a lie, it is not who they are. It is not their own personal natural beauty. It is a fake, hopeful rendition of what the client one day hopes/day dreams to be. However it is not realistic.
YOU ARE A PHOTOGRAPHER! MAKE ME LOOK AMAZING!
You are right, I am a photographer, I am also a super hero to some. I have the amazing ability to take the person that I have before me, and pull out the most beautiful things about them and capture it in a photo. As a photographer I will promise you that I will use my super hero powers to help you look amazing, but you are the one that has to do the real work. You have to smile, show your personality, and above all show that you love and accept yourself as you are. That is really all you need to do, and I will handle the rest. I will make sure that the pose is right, I will make sure the colors are correct. I will help you pose and I will do whatever I need to make you smile and laugh. But I must remind you every super hero does not act alone. Super Man has Lois Lane, Batman has Robin. Each helps the other. So this means that you have to do your part, love yourself, accept yourself, and show who you really are, and I promise you I will use my super powers to show it to you!